Single turbo vs twins has nothing to do with "playing well". All that matters is how much power you're going to make on stock internals, the rods are the weak point above 260-280whp.
Im guessing you are looking at the SDP kit? They will modify the stock downpipe to keep it all emissions intact, you can run the stock tune when it needs to be tested. As for a custom tune to make power you're probably going to need to look north of the border. Check out Great white north diesel or Same day tuning, call them and see if they can help you out.